Feeling Stuck and Ready for Change.
Do you feel stuck?
I spent the better part of my 20s feeling stuck. Like, how did I get here and how can I get myself out? I was anxious and feeling pretty low. I wasn't sleeping well. I was obsessing over diet and exercise. I hated my job. I was exhausted by all of it - by my story, the mental replay, listening to myself speak about it - all of it.
But I knew this wasn't my real story. I knew there was more to it. I wanted more. Fulfillment, purpose - I wanted it in every aspect of my life.
And now I have it.
And it wasn't just luck (although yes, there was some of that). It involved a lot of hard personal work and growth. A lot of re-framing and re-programming. Realizing that it wasn't the external that needed to change, but the internal.
And I continue to do this work. Every damn day. Every damn day I think about whether I'm working towards that purpose, those values, that level of fulfillment, or away from it. Every damn day I re-route and get myself back on that course.
So no, I don't believe you're stuck. You may feel stuck, but you're not. I believe you can change if you want to. But you're going to have to do the work. The internal work.
The better health, physical and mental; the strong relationships; the fulfilling job - it's there for you.
Are you ready for a change?